Spiritual Progression or "Personal Growth "

You can not cheat your way into a spiritual progression or personal growth; you need to do the work. If you understand the assignment the first time, go ahead and start working on yourself; pick up a new hobby, read a new book on self-development, and enroll in a gym or school to further your education ,etc If you feel stuck where you are or you feel that your current environment is not fulfilling you, then you have the responsibility to make changes. Nothing will change if you sit around, complaining about it, or even worse, victimizing yourself. You can start working on finding a new path, and if you can’t find it, I challenge you to create one. Find something that you are really passionate about or maybe even just good at.. Perhaps you can try doing things that you use to enjoy when you were a child and see if it's something you would love doing again.. If you want help or guidance, you can ask your angels, higher power, or for some, your inner strength to assist you. Personally, I pray.. Everyday ....I talk to God, the creator, my "all that is" because through reading the Bible, I know that as my father, He wants us to come to him anyway with any and everything. Make sure that as you grow internally , you aren't focusing too much on the negative aspects (your cognitive distortions and interpretations) while ignoring your real problems (the facts). What are the root causes of my behaviors? Why do I think the way that I do? How can I problem solve in a more effective and efficient way? The reason for observing your cognitive distortions (your interpretations, advertismwnts) is to grow the ability to dissolve the human ego. Is it possible that instead of taking action to solve your issues, you are trying to justify your inaction by expressing yourself negatively? If you have time to comment or complain about something or someone, if you have time to overthink, then you surely have plenty of time to work on it. Let's give an example. I love examples, so For example, you may get into a relationship that will eventually trigger your abandonment issues, trust issues, etc. Those triggers can serve as a heads up (not necessarily the fact) right? In order for us to heal and grow spiritually or personally, we need to put that work in. It means to start doing the inner work, have that open talk with your partner, etc. Let them know why you have doubts or Insecurities in your relationship so that there's an open line of communication and an this line of communication and an understanding between between both partners which will hopefully cause an internal awareness colonel awareness for the behaviors to shift into a more trustworthy sight. However, If you doubt That you are mistaken, And have proof of a break in loyalty then then that work may look like taking some time off to test it out. Maybe separate yourself from your partner with a time frame in mind so that you can gather your thoughts and come to a conclusion of you this inclusion of your future relationship relationship in a healthier manner without a without all of the pressure of of caving in to the other person. It is ultimately your choice what you want to do, but keep in mind that one day when that situation comes to an end, it may have done more damage to your journey than if you were to have left in the first place. It's also in important to remind ourselves that we can’t stay in the past just because it is familiar for us even though we knooooow it is toxic! Join me in letting go of bad habits, or manners. Let's renew our minds and tweek our behaviors ya'll. You can create the love that you want, but you have to be open to give, and accept love. Maybe you are holding on to issues from the past, or you have doubts about your relationship. Whatever it is, it looks like an inner problem that you are facing rather than a relationship problem. Wait a minute!!! Let me repeat that... if we keep holding on to issues from the past, or if you have doubts about your relationship, there is an internal that you are facing, rather than a relationship problem. It's our responsibility to make ourselves clear and transparent to our partners. You should express your feelings to your partner, and find a way to work through it together. Irrational feelings will cause you to be unhappy in a perfectly healthy relationship. If you want your relationship to grow, it comes down to only one solution, you should work on yourself. If you can’t change your feelings, or your behavior, than maybe you have to let it go. In no way, should you overthink, or overstress yourself. If it doesn’t feel good, it may not be, and it is not all of your fault. And this doesn't just have to be with a partner, it could be with your parents, friends, close relatives, really,... social relationships with whomever you've created any type of bond with that may hold value to you or in your life. If you are waiting on someone else to come, and get you out of a situation you are in, than you are approaching it the wrong way. For example, Waiting for someone to hand you a job opportunity, means that you don’t really want a job, or that better job if you already have one. If you have a dream, but you are waiting on finding someone else to work with, you are not going to achieve anything. This happens because deep down, you don’t trust yourself enough, to pull of your own plan, or to manifest your own vision Since your attitudes (interpretations) lead to actions (medically reverted to as behaviors), which then shape the course of your life. The practice of filling your mind with beautiful thoughts will help you to grow consistently and more beautiful within every day.